Growing up, I had a pretty dramatic family situation.
My dad was a hot-tempered as well as abusive man, as well as my entire family suffered because of it… He was extremely controlling as well as demanding.
He was also extremely insecure as well as having a sense of control over other people seem to give him a sense of security. It was a toxic situation for my mom as well as her three teenagers, needless to say, I do not do well with extremely macho energy or people with control problems. I immediately triggered when people start to be manipulative as well as demanding. I am out of there. Recently, I was in a relationship that started going in this direction. It started with fair things, such as problems over my other male friends, however soon he was controlling everything down to the control unit, however for my entire life, I have been a freezing human being. My internal control component is off-centered as well as hanging towards the extreme freezing end. I am basically consistently covered in Goosebumps as well as shivering. My ex actually knew this when he adjusted the control component down to 60 degrees as well as set a passcode on it. I know he decided he wanted to torture me with freezing air after we had a excruciating fight. I came apartment one night after work to find the condo freezing cold. I was immediately shivering. I could not get the heating system to turn on no matter what I did. The control component was locked with a passcode as well as none of the official suspects were unlocking the temperature control device. consider calling an Heating as well as A/C worker for help, however hastily reconsidered. I wound up dragging some space boilers out of the basement as well as plugging them in the bedroom to stay warm. At least this offered me some heat while I packed my bags as well as left.
