I’m probably not the easiest person to have a relationship with.
I have a lot of preferences that make me a bit difficult to deal with.
I also have a great deal of anxiety when I’m not in control of every situation. In fact, it’s one of my biggest relationship problems. I like things a certain way, and I like to have my life well organized. It can be difficult to find someone who fits within my rigid lifestyle. I’m currently seeing someone new and we are running into trouble when it comes to making plans. He routinely invites me to come over and hang at his place, but I enjoy being at my own house. To be honest, I need to have control over the air temperature control system to be happy. Specifically, I need cooling power. If I’m going to stay somewhere for a few hours or overnight, there’s no chance that I’m risking a hot and humid environment. At my house, my bedroom is tricked out with extreme Air Conditioning power. of course I have a traditional Central cooling system that I am always operating in the background. On top of that, I also install a powerful AC window unit in my bedroom for added Cooling. When that wasn’t enough, I had a dehumidification system installed and coupled with my central AC. Eventually, I got tired of paying for all the AC, so I also had Zone controlled cooling installed. Now I’m funneling all of the cold air into my room exclusively, as well as creating more cold air with my window AC unit. I know that this seems extreme, expensive, and difficult… But those are all the reasons that I generally get broken up with.
